Friday, January 27, 2012

a case study: dream dementia

dream demetia.

this is a condition that inflicts many. i'm not an expert on a lot of things but i know dream demetia. it has several stages. each stage can be recurring and a person can switch between stages without warning. sometimes there are triggers that spark a stage or symptom. however, in my expert opinion, symptoms most commonly appear without warning.

this case study will review the stages along with factual information of symptoms and/or triggers.

stages are not listed in any particular order. they may occur randomly and at any time.

HAVE DREAM! MUST ACCOMPLISH!

this first stage most commonly occurs in a person's late teens and early twenties. however, in cases (or case) that i have studied there is a 100% chance of recurrence. this is the point in dream dementia, or dd, when the subject has an AHA moment (all rights to "aha moment" used without permission from Oprah Winfrey). in this moment the subject will realize that he or she does, in fact, have a dream and they must accomplish it immediately.

symptoms inclue:
-tears
-laughter
-giggles
-speechlessness
-arms flailed
-face-palm
-head-desk
-uncontrolled urination
-heightened sense of self worth
-heightened sense of invincibility
-extreme self confidence

this stage can appear in smaller versions throughout all other stages. however, the severity will be greatly weakened by the negativity of other stages. negativity will most certainly diminish the symptoms of this stage.

in my study of dj  (names chaged due to HIPAA and to protect the suffering) there have been at least two defined cases of "have dream-must accomplish." the first occurrence was in the subject's early 20's. she was in a bookstore and saw a video of a woman performing in front of a large audience. the subject reports that she experienced tears, speechlessness, and giggles. dj reports in that moment she told a witness, "that's what i'm supposed to do." she realized that she had a dream to sing in front of a large crowd and she was determined to make that dream come true. this is a classic example of the "have dream-must accomplish" stage of dd. often at this point confidence is very high and even the most logical arguments are excused due to the adrenaline of the dream realization. dj has agreed to guest blog about her second experience at a later date.

HAD DREAM. MISPLACED IT.

this stage is quite possibly the most disheartening for the sufferer. often the daily routine of life, self-doubt, and criticism of others can bring a person from "have dream-must accomplish" to the "had dream-misplaced it" stage quickly and without warning. perhaps even more often, a person may realize that many years have passed since they experienced the moment that caused arms to flail or loss of urine control. this realization will resolve into a period of hopelessness, self-pity and/or self loathing.

some common phrases associated with this stage are:
-i'm too old for [said dream] now.
-i've wasted so much time doing [insert other life task].
-i couldn't do [said dream] anyway! i'm very busy with [other life task]!

in my study of dj, this stage's symptoms where at the worst following a failed marriage in which the subject felt very lost and her identity was uncertain. her loss of identity, misplacement of personality and the lack of support from her partner were great factors and were in close correlation to her misplaced dream. the subject reports that this stage lasted for many years. even during rare times when the dream would slightly resurface, self doubt would again achieve greater precedence and in the end snuff out any slight spark of hope. in dj's case the unending support of friends was pivotal in the reappearance of hope over and over again. the subject does report the small hope of her dream on the horizon during this time but negativity killed all hope, as suspected.

HAVE DREAM! WHAT NOW?!?!

this stage is quite the conundrum. studies have shown that, in a healthy person, the majority of time is spent in this stage. this stage of dd is both cognitively and emotionally confusing. there is: excitement and dread, peace and confusion, freedom and bondage, realization and questions, strength and weakness, hope and fear.

some questions associated with this stage are:
-now what?
-where do i go from here?
-will this ever matter?
-am i good enough?
-will i ever be good enough?
-what if i am a complete failure?
-what if i am a huge success?
-am i doing all that i can?
-can i do more?

many subjects will become so comfortable in this stage that he or she will be content to live there for a very long time. it proves an easy task to live within one's comfort zone. becoming content and comfortable often results in a recurrence of had dream-misplaced it phase. studies have shown that accountability proves a good remedy. as long a person has someone pushing him or her toward the dreams the probability of falling into a more negative place decreases.

dj reports that she currently resides in this phase. she admits to all symptoms. she is thankful for a group of friends who keep her accountable and encourage her to work on her dream consistently. she reports that in the past few months she has taken great strides in accomplishing her dream (as evidenced to the right of this post). she also reports that she is both comfortable and discontent at present. this mixture of emotions results in a willingness to continue growth in her current tasks at hand AND continue to pursue every dream. she even reports that the pursuit of one dream has lead to the realization of another. this is common in this stage of dd. once a subject has taken a small step toward dream fulfillment, he or she will realize there is no limit. you can dream as big as you can imagine. a person will realize that his or her creator really is able to do way, way more than she can ever ask or even think.

HAVE DREAM. DREAM ACHIEVED! 

currently no data. more information to come. 

in conclusion, if you or someone you know suffers from dream dementia, this is common. you are not alone. strive to live in the stage where dreams are accepted and pursued. when you find yourself in a place of negativity remember to seek out friends who will help guide you back in the right direction. the expectation is that your creator wants to do more than you can even imagine too!

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